After white students displayed Confederate flag at school, Black students suspended for planning protest. Will Bill bring up this cancellation?

2021.10.16 05:51 makeitwain After white students displayed Confederate flag at school, Black students suspended for planning protest. Will Bill bring up this cancellation?

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2021.10.16 05:51 RazzmatazzAnxious480 I am fucked

Yesterday only..... yesterday I posted here that my girl is not going out with any other man even if I permit her cuz she desires bigger dicks.
30 mins ago I found out she's been fucking my roommate longer than she's with me. I confronted her. She called me small and pathetic. my own friend was a better guy for her just cuz he's a 8 inch. She lost all my respect..all of it. I used to think she loves me and likes monogamy still I permitted her to fuck others but she didn't take that route and instead cheated on me for soooo long.
She called me gay bcuz I used to let her peg me ( I won't deny I like it ) but we went into it together
Is 5.5 really this small and will I always be cheated on bcuz my dick is not enough. Everyone on reddit told me yesterday she loves me and I thought that too but now I feel I'm never gonna be in a stable relationship bcuz of the pathetic dick I have
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2021.10.16 05:51 bootso Why no short shorts for our player character?

Topic.
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2021.10.16 05:51 Geocentricus Globers priorities

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2021.10.16 05:51 highnchillin_ This is a Emerald tree boa yawning

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2021.10.16 05:50 Ocelriggssaber666 SCP-999 the youngest son of Khahrahk/scarlet king

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2021.10.16 05:50 ManInaCaveInaForest I HATE mushrooms.

There, I said it!
However, I respect the fact they are a great source of nutrition and something that me may come to rely on if we ever need to go back to living off the land more.
I actually enjoy Quorn, and once ate shitaki (I think) mushrooms grown wild when I worked in a restaurant that I didn’t mind. I’m just not a fan of standard mushrooms.
Hoping I can learn a few things here! Maybe even learn to tolerate mushrooms?
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2021.10.16 05:50 8-dogs_8-banjos My wife just started driving for doordash and she's making about $10-$15 an hour, 4hrs a day M-F. She puts about 30 miles in each day. Keep it up, or is this going to kill our Rogue (22-28mpg, 25k miles on the odometer)?

I make $26/hr as an electrician, but she had surgery 2 months ago and I had surgery in September. We're 7k in debt and have to do something. Would any of you recommend transcription from home at about $9/hr over dashing?
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2021.10.16 05:50 hypertron69 Deltarune Theory: Sans, and Monster biology.

SPOILER ALERT: Includes Spoilers for Deltarune Chapter 2 and it's "Weird Route".

Something about Sans biology has been bugging me lately. Of course, at the end of the UNDERTALE Genocide run he bleeds, and we don't see him turn to dust. Of course, this was confusing at the time. Why did he bleed? Was it ketchup? But after looking into the new Deltarune chapter, I'm starting to think it's bigger than that.
Susie, one of three Monsters that have entered the dark world so far, seems to contradict the biology of the monsters in undertale, also. She not only references bleeding, saying "Everyone bleeds, right?" in Chapter 1, this is coming from someone who lives in a town with Kris as the sole human being. But in the game files there are currently unused sprites of her bleeding from her hand and possibly her face. https://www.reddit.com/Undertale/comments/pu8zb0/unused_sprite_of_susie_bleeding/
We also know that the Weird/Snowgrave Route in Chapter 2 has Kris/the player coerce Noelle into turning fellow lightner Berdly into a chicken popsicle. The spell for SnowGrave is described as "Fatal." and Berdly is not conscious when returning to the light world. Whether or not he's dead, comatose, or it's just a fakeout from Toby is yet to be seen. But there is one thing he didn't do. He did not turn to dust like the UT Monsters do. If he were dead, that'd be the expectation. It's also worth pointing out that the town has a graveyard, though it's plausable that they could bury dust into it. Just thought it was interesting as nothing like this is seen or spoken of in Undertale.
Now, Sans. We've seen him a couple times in Deltarune so far. He's "befriended" your mom and runs a grocery store. He's still got the same sense of humor as he had in UT, if not maybe a tad more insulting. (I am NOT an idiot baby, thank you.)
I truly think that this Sans is the same person we see in Undertale. It sounds like something any rumormonger could say but I really believe until proven otherwise that it's entirely possible.
Between the picture behind his house that reads "It's a poorly drawn picture of three smiling people. Written on it... "don't forget." If you've played Deltarune Chapter 1 I probably don't need to tell you why the phrase "Don't forget" sticks out here, It's the name of the end credits for that chapter. It's also pretty likely Sans wrote those words, as it's in complete lowercase (his usual MO) and it's kept in a room behind his house that he has the key for. You could say that 3 people matches up with the current main characters, but we really have no way of knowing that as of right now. There's also still the question of what that machine in there is for.
The Genocide route's battle with sans also raises questions that I haven't seen answered yet. Sans states "look. i gave up trying to go back a long time ago. and getting to the surface doesn't really appeal anymore, either" So, where was he going back to, if not the surface? I think it's possible that Sans, if not the other monsters, were stripped out of Deltarune's timeline and put into Undertale against his will. That would explain what the machine is for, and why he has a drawing of faces to remember. He's trying to get back to his home, his original timeline.
So far, the one thing I can think that would directly contradict this so far is the apartment door in Chapter 1, with the kid that asks Kris if it "hurts to be made of blood." Maybe Monster biology varies from Monster to Monster? Until we have more information, I can't say. But it feels like the more we see from Deltarune, the more it lines up with unanswered questions from Undertale.
Despite this, I feel that there's one thing that will clarify much more about Deltarune Monsters. Whatever happens to Berdly, I think it's going to both answer and raise a lot of questions.
TL;DR Sans could be from the Deltarune Timeline, and the potential biology of Deltarune Monsters might just prove it.
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2021.10.16 05:50 Sunset-or-Sunrise Is my friend a gold digger? Need Advice

(This is my first Reddit post, and I'm sorry this is so long)
I am becoming increasingly concerned with a friend's behavior, and I don't know what to do to reconcile the situation. My issue is two-fold, I feel mistreated by my friend, and I wonder if she's a true friend. Also, her current dating behavior seems like she is gold digging. I probably have to decide if I want to continue the friendship or not, but before I decide, I'd like advice about whether her behavior is "gold digging," and/or if her behavior detracts from a healthy friendship. And any advice (what you personally would do) would be appreciated too.
I am a 43yo married female. My friend is a 46yo divorced female (recently divorced for the third time). I met this friend (I'll use H for her, not real name) 4 years ago and we grew close quickly, bonding over my struggles with separating after 20 years of marriage, and her experience with more than one divorce. I felt she had a lot of wisdom about life, and experience as a mother (she has two children, 23 and 13, and I have a toddler), and her philosophies were helpful to me at a rough time in life.
I have been in CBT (therapy) for 4 years as well, and I've worked to be more understanding of and open-minded toward others, in addition to dealing with my enmeshment issues with my husband, among other personal patterns I'd like to change. My husband and I cut off our dysfunctional families many years ago, as well as toxic friendships--all on the advice of our therapists back then. Many years of hardships kept us from growing socially, and delayed starting a family. I explain all this because one of my aims in making new friends is to be compassionate and open-minded, but also not fall into patterns from my youth, where my friend choices were poor, and I got used and mistreated.
When I met H, she was in the beginning of a relationship with who would be her 3rd husband. Husband 3 was an ER doc, and her (struggling part-time massage therapist) standard of living changed a lot when she moved in with, then married him. She has always been vague about many details in her life, but apparently there was an argument over a prenup, and he refused to legally marry her, opting to just buy rings, have a ceremony, and tell his son and her kids that they were officially married.
She claimed that her children assimilated with his son so easily, and that they were like a wolf pack, a bonded group. She said husband 3 was her "true love" and that she was meant for him all her life, etc. I felt this was a little immature in a fairytale-ish way, but I was happy to see her happy, and I have to admit, the part of me that was unhappy in my own marriage wanted to buy into her notion that it could just work out simple and easy like that. In retrospect though, I never heard her tell me why it was true love, how they were compatible (other than the occasional dates when they had a lot of fun), what they bonded over, what they gave to/learned from each other, etc. But that was the problem, she wasn't really happy. She was really reliant on me for support, daily, and I counseled her quite a lot on all I knew about making a relationship work, and good therapy advice I'd gleaned over the years, self-help books I'd read, etc. Nothing seemed to help. H and husband 3 were having the same fights over and over. She would get drunk while on dates with him and call me, furious about something he'd done. I'd ask if they could cool off, sober up, and try talking later? Could she offer an apology for her part? Could she tell him that she needs to cool off, but in her heart really wants to get along and make things work, and hopes they can come together, etc. She seemed bitter and stubborn, and had ego wrapped into the fights. She'd tell me bitter nasty things he said, but she never admitted to her part in things. She made him out to be a villain, and no matter how many times I tried to show her there are two sides to a relationship, it became clear that she needed me to see her a certain way, the way she wanted to be seen, and I needed to see him the way she wanted him to be seen.
This past new year's day, while still "married" to, and living with husband 3, she texted the man she'd been dating before she met husband 3. I know little about him other than that she said he has a big house, and is "loaded" (financially). After those details, she said he was good looking and funny. The man responded to her texts but that fell flat, and she didn't offer more details. While she was texting with the old interest, she began hanging out with an attractive single massage client. She said it was just as friends, but then told me they'd gone out to dinner, for him to advise her on her marriage and the old interest guy. During that dinner, she sent that client a seductive photo of herself.
I was growing increasingly uncomfortable with all of her behavior choices. I brought it up with my husband (even though we are trying to separate, we are still close friends), I brought it up in therapy, and in both cases they reminded me of how good of a friend H had been (supporting me in my fears about separating, being on my own, starting a new career, etc.), and that she was going through a hard time, and her choices don't have to be my choices, etc.
Meanwhile, husband 3 bought H a very expensive car, and took her on a trip, as his way to try to reconcile their issues. (I understand throwing money at a problem is not the most helpful to relational issues, but he was trying.) I had a hard time crystalizing what exactly H's marital unrest was, because her complaints changed constantly. But in the end, her main issue was that she'd been made to watch his son for homeschooling during the COVID pandemic, he wasn't paying for her health insurance (she is on Medicaid since they are not legally married), and she has no retirement plan, so he should share his. Her argument was that she was sacrificing her own work time to watch his son, and was getting no compensation. I understand her position, but she was also getting free living expenses for her and her daughter, and he gave her a credit card to use for whatever (within reason) she needed, from manicures, to clothes, to dining out, groceries, yoga classes, etc. He also took her 13yo and her 23yo on blended family trips, and bought them gifts for birthdays and holidays (and each of her kids were still getting child support from their respective fathers).
She moved out of husband 3's house in March while he was away in Mexico. I felt that was drama and untrustworthy, designed to hurt him, but I only gently questioned her, and she claimed it was "easier" to do it that way. I've begun to see more and more that she does what she wants to do, and doesn't consider others the way I would. Then, this past spring/summer, she first had a few weeks of a fling with her single client, and when he lost touch with her, she used dating apps to go on dates with quite a few men. At this point, I was happy for her, and just a little worried about the dates, for safety reasons, and tried to help make sure she was safe by checking in and all. She seemed to be looking for a real connection, and while what is a connection to her seemed based on things that aren't the basis of my connections (she was into physical appearance a lot more, and being fit, and was vague about anything else), I rooted for her, helped encourage her, etc.
In late May, H decided to make a career change, and enrolled in nursing school. So she had to do some prelim testing, and other preparations to start in the fall. She said she was tired of not having health insurance, no retirement plan, and hadn't been able to buy a house because her reported income couldn't support a mortgage. So I was happy for her, and it felt like she was trying to make real changes that would help her longterm, and not repeat the resentment she had toward husband 3, for not providing these things to her. I gave her a lot of encouragement, and was inspired by her willingness to embark on a new career at 46.
Here's where it gets weird. In March, when H first moved, she met a neighbor near her new apartment while taking her dog for a walk. This neighbor is someone I remotely know, from an unfair business experience I had with him in the past. I told her this, but she didn't care. The man is much older (our parents' generation) and, though married, was hitting on her. He also was recommending she date a "really rich" friend of his who had lost his wife a few months earlier. She mentioned this back in March, but nothing came of it, so she dated through the summer, and then in late August, she told me she was back in touch with the dog walk guy, and his friend wanted her to go work for him.
I wondered how or why she was going to work for this man when she was starting nursing school, and still doing massages, and kept telling me how insanely busy she was, so much so that she had no time for anything and had to give up her dog to a rescue.
Remember, she is vague about details and I am left trying to read between lines, or piece things together.
The next thing I know, she's telling me she met the man (we'll call him G), and he is an executive in a very big name company, has a huge house, spends $120,000 a year on private school for his 4 children, hires help to do any- and everything, etc. THEN she tells me she went to do domestic work for him, and it felt just like "The Sound of Music" (except she isn't a nanny, and has 2 kids), and it just felt "natural" and "meant to be." I got a creepy feeling then, because she was talking just like she did 4 years ago when she was getting with husband 3, and she didn't even seem to remember that, not enough to acknowledge she said similar things to me then, or reflect on learning from it.
I remember how when she was dating men of more everyday means all summer, she hid them from her kids because she didn't want to tell them until/unless it was serious. Well, suddenly, she had enlisted her son and daughter to go work for G in a domestic capacity. Her son began driving G's high schooler to and from sports practices, and her daughter was babysitting. H herself, began making them dinner. (Yes, I have seen the excellent film "Parasite" and this was freaking me out!) I was like wth is going on?
She also told me a creepy story about how his wife used to be a nurse, and one time when H was at his house cooking for him, she made muffins for his daughter. The daughter asked for them the way her mom made them. H did so. Then G muttered under his breath, "she's just like her." IDK what this even means, but to me it feels creepy. Why is she trying to be this dude's wife's ghost? Why is she making these muffins for the youngest child? I wouldn't do that for fear of confusing or traumatizing her. Meaning, I feel like H is stepping into this kid's life, and manipulating her to get to her dad. Is that a leap? H doesn't like kids. She has told me this endlessly. She said her first child was an accident, and her second was to appease husband 2. She takes care of her kids, but she's not especially nurturing, and she doesn't ever understand how much I put into my son, or separation anxiety, or any of my mom worries, etc. She just isn't that type. Fine. But then why try to sign up for a domestic job taking care of some widower's FOUR children if you don't like children? and when you're about to being nursing school on top of your existing job?
This went on for a few weeks in August until he officially asked H out. And now H is dating him, not working for him. I have no idea if her kids are still working for him, but her daughter is in full-time school with sports, and her son got a finance job, so why H ever volunteered her family for this is beyond me.
I heard all about G's money. Money, money, money. I heard about the expensive dates he took her on, surprises he is planning, etc. I didn't hear anything about their connection, or things he does that she finds attractive/charming/funny. She told me his wife died from drinking/drugs, but she doesn't know how. This woman had FOUR children, aged 15 to 8, and died, TRAUMATICALLY, less than a year ago. To me, I would not be trying to date a man in this situation, for his sake, and for that of his kids. If I really cared about a man in this situation, I'd try to be his friend, and let time heal for a bit. But I know what I would do does not have to be what she does, I just can't keep supporting her. I just don't agree with what she is doing, and I think it's wrong*. I've tried to tell her this, but she doesn't want to hear it, and punishes me by growing distant and icing me out when I don't support her narrative. So I've just not replied to her past couple of texts, and I really don't know what to say to her from here.
*An important piece to add here is that a running theme in her complaints about husband 3, was that he had not gotten over his late wife. Yes, husband 3 also was a widower. H complained that she felt like the late wife was a ghost between them, and she read it takes a man 4 years to get over a spouse, and their relationship began barely a year after that late wife died. To me, I am looking at my friend's complaints, and her patterns, and I am hoping to see her learn from them and change them. It's a rare thing to find a man who is a widower in his 40s, and here she is entering into a second relationship with a widower in his 40s, barely 6 months after her last marriage ended with husband 3 for not being over his late wife. Husband 3 is now finally 4 years away from his wife's death, but H is going for a man whose wife, again, is barely a year dead.
In addition to my discomfort with her dating practices, I've been hurt a number of times by passive aggressive things H has said. In my own life, I've been struggling to separate from my husband during a pandemic, with my toddler's best interest coming first. Despite a year of bids on over a dozen houses, the difficult market has put buying a second home out of reach, and 2br rent in a nearby area that is safe and child-friendly, is more than another mortgage. My son has had developmental concerns, and is going to be assessed for the second time. He is a challenge right now, and I put my all into him, but I struggle to learn added skills and extra patience. I am exhausted mentally and physically, every day. I also have a hoarding issue (not like extremes on TV, but definitely too much stuff) that I am working on in therapy, and I am trying to purge my home of things that actually hold thousands of dollars in value, so I need to make donations with receipts to try to recoup a tax credit on all of this, especially when we need the money in a separation. It is very time-consuming, and a major challenge with a needy toddler, so I very rarely get time to work on it. So my husband and I are still cohabitating as we navigate purging this excess stuff, try to afford and actually grab a home in a fast-paced seller's market, and deal with our son's development, all while we combat the usual trauma and stress of a separation, and mitigate the fallout for our child.
When I have tried to lean on H for advice, she used to say compassionate things, that seemed to really understand the complexity of my issues, but as time wore on, she grew impatient, saying things like "IDK why you are still with him. I'd have left long ago." As for my son's hyperactivity, she says, "just strap him in a stroller and go for a jog," and regarding my donations, she said, "put it in a trash bag and leave them at those dumpster donation places." I have actually thanked her for this advice and wondered why I am so problematic as to not be able to so easily dispense with my issues as she puts it. And this is definitely my issue from childhood, that I am also actively working on in therapy, where I assume others know best, and I can't figure out my own life. But I am coming out of that enough to see that there isn't much genuine understanding or reflection in her advice, and it isn't helpful to me at all.
Additionally, as I am now in year 2 of my decision to separate (stopped having sex with my husband), I have developed a few crushes on single men in my life, which I use for romantic hope, and to feel sexually relevant. I'm not hiding this from my husband, but I'm not consulting him on it either. We're in a really awkward place. But H knows all about these men, and when I questioned her decision to start dating G, at least so soon after his wife died, she got immediately vicious, listing how much better he was than the losers I crushed on. I would never look at people in such immature terms, people are human beings, despite their shortcomings and struggles, and her weird comparison/attack was not only unkind, but combative, and seemed designed to insult/shut me down.
There are several other snide comments H has made, that undermine nearby neighborhoods where I have been house hunting, my struggle to lose baby weight that I regained with pandemic and separation stress, and other things in my life.
I am at a point where I feel like any time she reaches out, it's just to brag about how rich G is, and nothing about a real connection. I don't feel heard or seen for who I am; I don't feel my struggles are understood or cared about; and I don't want to share with her because I don't feel safe to be vulnerable after how many times it's been thrown back at me in a betraying mean way.
Is my friend a gold digger? Is this friendship worth working on, and if so, how? Other thoughts?
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2021.10.16 05:50 WickedWisp My stray "friend" only likes me if i have food. How can I build more trust?

I've been feeding a cat who lives outside of my work for about a month or two. They'll wait for me or come running when I call or they see me outside at a certain time, since i feed them whenever i take the trash out at like 8-930ish every night. We've gotten to a point where they run up to me, about a foot away is how close I'm allowed to be, and will sometimes meow at me and follow me to put down food. I left a new type of food but didn't see them at feeding time, so i check after work at around 10 and see them walking around. I start talking and walking over but at 20 feet away or farther they run away as if I'm a complete stranger. This cat is incredible looking for being a stray, and i know they are because the other cats in the area have an owner who i talk to at night. It's thriving outside which is great, but we have really harsh Winters in Ohio and I'd like to give it a place to stay when it gets cold, permanently or not. But i feel like this guy only cares if i have food. And i get that they're food motivated, but i thought we were really attached, my other coworkers say that the cat will sit and wait for me at night and will get upset/confused when I'm not there. They watch me throw away garbage and generally seem comfortable with me, although not to pet yet.
Is there anyway i can build more trust so I'm seen as a friend and not just a food bringer?
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2021.10.16 05:50 nomitycs Curry checks out at the end of the 3Q vs the Blazers with 41/9/2/2

With some amazing shooting splits
13/23 FG 7/14 3P 8/10 FT +22 on the game
All in only 30 minutes
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2021.10.16 05:50 Kaijugioh If you're the sonics the hedges hogs, whoa your egg delivery guy?

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2021.10.16 05:50 hecruz24 Column: Why journalists are failing the public with 'both-siderism' in political coverage

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2021.10.16 05:50 S4d_Machin3 I miss old LoL casters.

I'm talking about joe don't call me "joe joe miller miller" miller, Leigh Deman Smith in eu lcs. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_GEyH5ypDs
and DoA and Monte Cristo in ogn, i wish riot would bring them to cast in LoL again or have them in worlds, they were a reason for me to watch LoL esports, they brought moments like this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ggqCHWlydgU

does anyone else wish they would be casting again in worlds or in general LoL esports?
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2021.10.16 05:50 razzledazzlegirl I mean, there was so much to love but honestly this is what blew me away most.

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2021.10.16 05:50 quaternionungulate Is there anything I can do about a professor never responding to my emails?

I have this professor who's really nice. She's a really good teacher and she cares about our education. The class material is very difficult so I go to her office hours regularly. She told me to email her on days when I can't attend her office hours (scheduling conflicts) with any questions I may have and she will help me. However, she never responds any time I email her.
I know professors are very busy, but she explicitly told me to email her. I also know that she gets my emails because she'll bring them up during office hours (like a week after I sent them), and will be like "Oh yeah, I got your email. I'll reply soon!" but she never does.
I'm just really confused and don't know what to do. She's sending me mixed signals by being really nice and caring but also not following through with her promises. Does anyone have any advice?
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