2021.12.01 15:52 Training-Mix Is it time to leave my husband?
Throw away account. Before I start, please let me say, be gentle, I know I’m an idiot.
My husband (36m) and I (33f) have been married nearly 15 years and have 4 kids. He’s always been more on the immature side but as we’ve gotten older he hasn’t grown up at all. There’s a lot that’s happened in my marriage that has been awful but this post is only about one situation. He won’t hold a job. He’s quit every job he’s ever had, and usually on holds them a few months. I thought he was getting better a few years ago when he got a job in a factory and stayed there a year. He was fired after refusing to sign a write up for missing work. He quickly found another job at a small electrical business. He worked there a year and was fired. This was last September. He did start getting unemployment but the only reason was because one of the reasons his boss gave to unemployment was not a legitimate reason to terminate an employee, but all the other reasons were. My husband was 30 minutes late to work every single day and no called no showed at least once a week. He didn’t start getting unemployment until January though. I worked full time.
In June I broke my back in a freak accident at home. Once released from the hospital I was only able to get up my stairs and into my home by EMTs. I was completely bed bound and unable to work or even care for myself. We survived on his unemployment. I’m still basically bed bound. I can now walk short distances, have PT, and am able to leave my home but can not sit up straight for more than a few minutes, can not bend, or lift anything, and can not work. I see my surgeon again after Christmas.
His unemployment ran up in September. He was offered a decent job but failed the drug test. Was offered another job in a factory, worked 3 days and quit. Was offered a job at a lumber mill, worked 2 weeks and quit. 2 weeks later someone from the lumber mill showed up and talked him into coming back. He’s worked there the last few weeks and things have been okay. I woke him up for work this morning and he said “yeah, I’m not going back. You can take the kids and leave, I don’t give a shit.”
Hours later he is saying he will find another job. But this is a pattern and Christmas is 3 weeks away. It’s too late to sign up for toys for tots or apply for assistance. He just ruined our children’s Christmas. He said I should go work there and he will stay home. He told me he’d love to have a broken back. He acts like I chose this. Like I’d choose having to have my hair washed by my 8 year old daughter. I love working and I hate being in bed all the time. I think it’s time to leave. How can someone do this to their own children?
TLDR: husband won’t hold a job
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